Happiness & Who needs happiness?

A soldier on a vehicle to a war zone might say to another soldier, when the war is over we can go home and eat a little more and sleep a little more. There is hope that he returns back to the land which he is serving. When soldiers are protecting the borders and fighting we are doing our part in the country in varied fashions. 400 years of foreign rule have changed the country so much that we forget that the freedom fighters fasted, they went to jails so that we are not dependent on some souls. Today, we forget everything, our soul purpose is our happiness which has driven the goal oriented country wanting freedom to selfish self centered souls who only look at their happiness and not at the progress of the country. This country has the rich, the poor and the middle class, the disparity between the rich, poor and middle class is so high because everyone is on their own. A kid is ready to spend 1000 bucks on a beer but not ready to give to charity because he feels his enjoyment is more important than someones daily meals. I am surprised people still live in slums, have 1 meal, die without crossing 1 year of age in this country and there are elderly who are not taken care properly by their kids. There are places which have no access to medicine, proper living facilities but it doesn't bother many. Why this happens? This happens with the fundamental flaw that we are taught to be happy and not to make someone else happy. Kudos our education needs to change to make 5 people happy can 1 person sacrifice his happiness?

The story of 3 soldiers

This is the story of 3 universal soldiers who wanted to protect their motherland. One said he will protect the country staying within the country and moving from one town to another and checking randomly what is happening in each town. The second soldier said he will stay on the boundary and protect the country. The third soldier said he will stay out of his country and protect it from intruders who try to enter by convincing them not to enter indicating the problems. Each of them felt their idea is correct. A day came when the outside country wanted to invade this country, there was a rebellion inside the country and then the soldier inside the country felt he needed the other two to help him, and the soldier outside felt he needed the other two. But, the soldier at the border not knowing what was happening inside and what was getting planned outside felt he should have either stayed inside the country or he should have gone out of the country instead of staying at the border. Now, the three people incidently happened to meet at the border to share their problem. Now, the person at boundary realized that there is major problem both outside and inside and he said to other two we should all work together and solve the problem. Now, they were not sure whether they should solve the outside problem first or insider problem first then they decided the insider problem should be first solved to solve the outsider problem. Because, if an outsider comes, we have more strength if there are no internal problems. So, moral of the story, solve inside problems first and outside problems would never transpire.

The third 20's

The first 20 Years of life we learn from our parents, we learn from our teachers' and we learn and learn to succeed and how to accept the failure. The next 20 years we are in the point of proving that we are right and we move on that what we learned is right and we try to prove and prove again. The next 20 years which is crucial is where our kids start to enter our life and we try to teach the 20+20 of our life as an experience which is a phase which is critical. This phase we start to realize that we wish to go back to the first 20 instead of calling the second 20 the best. This is life and how interesting we have to look fro 60 after this 20 years which makes life to be looked as 20-20 match where the first ODI is over and the second ODI has started. The third ODI might be needed , if we aim to live for another 20 years. What a surprise we learn, unlearn, teach, and correct ourselves and our soul shows the way to succeed.

Cinema & Society

We take a leaf from the movie world. That leaf becomes a guiding factor and a motto for many. But, are we not missing something that our life is not to be dictacted by a movie artist or a movie. The world of cinema is very funny as it shows something important at the cost of so much money, so many variations with so many truths hidden. People do have a tendency to follow what they like whether it be from a movie or a personnel connection such a friend but as a society the guiding motto's are they not hindering the real YOU. The real YOU is somebody who do not need followers but everyone expects that there are people who follow us which unfortunately is the present day situation of our society shaped by over a billion minds. Some think helping others is important, some think being truthful is important, the parameter is different but everyone look for some standard, and we always hope our standard is more important than others, what a pity we find it difficult to find balance with other people's standard. It keeps me pondering when someone says, i am there leader\, I have to follow them? What are we following and what do we follow is a interesting story!